Changes

Posted by Tanos on Thu 30 Oct 08, 8:23 PM

I've never been one to post blow by blow commentaries of my relationships as they happen, and that's especially true when things are coming to a conclusion. But I think it's time to spell out how things are now. The short version is that I uncollared both lili and popi, and they have now both moved out. The rest of this post is the slightly longer version.

I'm also going to write an IE analysis of what happened as the M/s relationship lili and I had ran its course, but as some of you realised from what's been visible online, I uncollared lili in July, and she gradually moved out during the following months. In the eight years the M/s lasted, we saw a lot of wonderful places, and did some marvelous things, and we're still on very good terms and meeting up one or two times a week.

Since a lot of people still read the essays and posts lili made in the first few years of enslavement, we've moved them onto a permanent home on the IE website.

I uncollared popi in August, for reasons that are no fault of hers and not the result of anything she did wrong. Her life was moving forward in other major ways this year through her hard work and determination, and I've been able to help her buy a car and sort out a place to live that's more convenient for that. We're still meeting up too, to see films, watch TV or put the world to rights.

For myself, I've thrown myself into Bridgewood and upgrading the websites, and I expect I'll do some more writing about BDSM and especially D/s as I did when I was single last time.